Dispelling the Myth of the Female Shopaholic

Women have had to deal with the “overindulgent spendthrift” stereotype for ages, and it has led mostly advisors to accept what financial journalist Helaine Olen calls the “Sex and the City approach to female finance.”

The underlying message? Those silly girls run into financial trouble because they buy Jimmy Choo shoes when they should be giving money to Chuck Schwab instead.

But the idea that women spend their money irresponsibly is a myth.

Where the “Shopaholic” Myth Comes From

Why do women have such a notorious reputation for being shopaholics? It’s likely because women do tend to shop more than men — in fact, they’re responsible for 85 percent of overall consumer spending.

But consider the context: Women are almost always the primary caregivers for their loved ones. That means they end up not just buying for themselves but for their kids, spouses, relatives, friends, colleagues, neighbors, mailman, babysitter… you get the picture.

“If somebody, somewhere needs a gift, chances are there’s a woman thinking about it — tracking it down, wrapping it, making sure it’s accompanied by a personal message, and then delivered on the appointed day,” says Bridget Brennan, a leading researcher on female consumers. “I sometimes think entire industries would collapse overnight if women stopped being so thoughtful. Consider the impact to the greeting card industry alone.”

Looking at the Numbers

When women do shop for themselves, they spend more on categories you’d expect, specifically clothing and personal care. Men, on the other hand, splurge more on alcohol, electronics, and car purchases.

In fact, men spend more overall:

Yet somehow, men don’t seem to encounter much criticism about their spending habits — no smirks, no snide comments, no finger-wagging, no latte-shaming.

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Diane Bourdo, CFP®
Diane Bourdo, CFP®

Diane Bourdo is the President of The Humphreys Group. Diane has dedicated her life’s work to helping women make smart financial decisions. For nearly 30 years, she has developed investment management and financial planning strategies that allow her clients to create lives that reflect their values. Diane was named an InvestmentNews 2020 Women to Watch and has been recognized in Forbes, SF Chronicle, NY Times and more for her work and writing.

Diane Bourdo, CFP®
Diane Bourdo, CFP®

Diane Bourdo is the President of The Humphreys Group. Diane has dedicated her life’s work to helping women make smart financial decisions. For nearly 30 years, she has developed investment management and financial planning strategies that allow her clients to create lives that reflect their values. Diane was named an InvestmentNews 2020 Women to Watch and has been recognized in Forbes, SF Chronicle, NY Times and more for her work and writing.

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